Showing posts with label abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label abuse. Show all posts

Friday, January 27, 2023

A Stark Contrast

Mark 12:35-44, CEB - While Jesus was teaching in the temple, he said, “Why do the legal experts say that the Christ is David’s son?  David himself, inspired by the Holy Spirit, said, The Lord said to my lord, ‘Sit at my right side until I turn your enemies into your footstool.’ David himself calls him ‘Lord,’ so how can he be David’s son?” The large crowd listened to him with delight.

 

As he was teaching, he said, “Watch out for the legal experts. They like to walk around in long robes. They want to be greeted with honor in the markets. They long for places of honor in the synagogues and at banquets. They are the ones who cheat widows out of their homes, and to show off they say long prayers. They will be judged most harshly.”

Jesus sat across from the collection box for the temple treasury and observed how the crowd gave their money. Many rich people were throwing in lots of money.  One poor widow came forward and put in two small copper coins worth a penny.  Jesus called his disciples to him and said, “I assure you that this poor widow has put in more than everyone who’s been putting money in the treasury.  All of them are giving out of their spare change. But she from her hopeless poverty has given everything she had, even what she needed to live on.”

 

Jesus’s final teaching in the Temple targets the legal experts and leaders with which he has been sparring.  He does so by first pointing out a discontinuity in the legal experts position concerning the Messiah.  Two centuries later, the point is a bit confusing to us where it probably was not to Jesus’s audience that day.  The experts position was that the Messiah would be a descendant of David.  Jesus seems to cast aspersion of this notion by quoting David himself in Psalm 110 where David refers to the Messiah as my Lord.  Jesus asks the rhetorical question, “David himself calls him ‘Lord,’ so how can he be David’s son?” The confusion for us is that Matthew and Luke Gospel take great pains to point out that Jesus, the Messiah, is indeed a descendent of David.  Furthermore, this contention is crucial because it fulfills multiple prophecies.  It seems that Jesus, in this story recalled in Mark, contradicts this notion. 

I’m not convinced that Jesus is actually contradicting this.  I think (and I do stress that this is only my opinion) that what Jesus was trying to point out is that you can use scripture to support or refute any notion you want.  I believe the language used elsewhere in Mark supports the notion that Jesus does see Himself as both as David’s son and David’s Lord/Messiah.  He is taking something his students believe as true and proof-texting scripture to improperly “contradict” it as an example of something foolish anyone can do.  I see support for this opinion in the fact that, from this illustration, Jesus launches His attack on the religious leaders for their hypocrisy when it comes to the scriptures.

Specifically, he mentions the fact that they have used their influence and authority to take advantage of widows who trusted them to steward property on the widows’ behalf.  Jesus is calling out the fact that they have used a scriptural responsibility to take care of widows as the very basis for exploiting those widows for their own gain.  They do so all the while parading around in their expensive robes and elite “sacred” jewelry.  This criticism reaches a climax with Jesus noticing a widow putting all she has into the Temple treasury.  The irony of her giving all she has in support of and trust in the institution that is exploiting people like her is almost too much to take.  Jesus identifies the religious leaders as the principle perpetrators of this gross injustice. 

Lest we too quickly distance ourselves from the abuses and hypocrisy of the leaders Jesus is condemning, it behooves us to remember that almost every long-established religious institution has fallen into such abuses including the Christian church itself.  The reason this teaching is in the gospel of Mark is that Mark’s audience, the early Christian church, needed to hear it.  The twenty-first century church needs to hear it as well.

Scripture is not to be manipulated to suit the ends of those trusted to represent it.  It is neither to justify our own opinions or behavior.  Twisting the words of scripture to serve self-centered outcomes is gross injustice and worthy of the strongest condemnation.  The aim is to have the heart of the generous widow, who exceeded to “prescribed-by-law” amount to be contributed to God.   She follows scriptural teaching and then exceeds it. 

The last point to be made here is that the widow’s sacrifice of all directly foreshadows the sacrifice of all that Jesus will make just days from this event.  He will give his very life for greater good of humanity.  Every story in Mark from this point on will highlight this sacrifice as the basis for Jesus’s Messiahship. 

 

Question:  Have you ever seen scripture “used” to support something you knew was wrong?

 

Prayer:  Lord Jesus, illumine your teachings for us in a way that keeps us from using them for self-serving reasons.  May we see spiritual abuses where they are present and call it out whenever we have the opportunity to do so.  Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for Bishop Tom Berlin, our new United Methodist Bishop in Florida as of January 1.

 

Song:  Have Thine Own Way – Adelaide Pollard

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0CYI1zgiWzc

Thursday, April 21, 2022

Forgiveness is NOT Reconciliation

 

Acts 7:59-60, NIV - While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” 60 Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this, he fell asleep.

 

                The sad event of the execution of Stephen points out the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation.   While Stephen forgives with his last words,  there obviously is no reconciliation between himself and the religious leaders carrying out the stoning that will kill him minutes later.  When we do harm (physical, mental/emotional, or spiritual) to another, we have injured or, in some cases, broken a relationship.  A common misunderstanding is that forgiveness heals or restores the relationship.  It does not.  If reconciliation is the goal, forgiveness is only a necessary step towards that goal.  But reconciliation is, by and large, the work that takes place after forgiveness has occurred.  But it is so important to realize that forgiveness and reconciliation are two different things. 

                Take the very serious example of a physically abused wife. While it is possible for a woman to forgive the abuse, she in most cases may not want to reconcile the relationship.  A violent spouse is one that has a problem controlling dangerous and harmful behavior.  While it is possible to forgive that behavior, it is quite another matter to put oneself in a position where the violence could be repeated. Reconciliation, in this case, would require extensive work of BOTH PARTIES to rebuild trust in a safe environment and even then, it may not happen.  This distinguishes the key difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. Forgiveness only requires the work of the forgiver and reconciliation requires the work of both parties. 

This is a revolutionary idea for some because of another misunderstanding concerning forgiveness.  There are many who believe that in order to forgive someone, the offender must be sorry.  However, it that were true, it would be the offender who controls when forgiveness is possible. On the contrary, the person who forgives is reasserting their power in the wake of an offense committed against them.  It does not require the cooperation or even approval of the offender. 

Returning to our example above, there is often no remorse or willingness to do the extremely hard work of change on the part of an abusing spouse.  When this is true, the victim of the abuse will remain a victim until she finds a way to reassert her power.  As we will discuss later, forgiveness is a key component in reasserting power.  Where reconciliation is not an option on the table, forgiveness always is available.

Applying this principles to God’s forgiveness, you have been forgiven by God for whatever mistakes you have made in the past.  God did that unilaterally.  However, this does not imply that you have a relationship with God.  A relationship with God takes God and YOU participating.  Though God has initiated the relationship, it takes your response to confirm it.

 

Question:  How have you responded to God’s overtures at a relationship with you?

 

Prayer:    God, thank you for your forgiveness.  Thank you for loving me before I even gave You a thought.  I will respond to your love in the following ways today:  ____________ (fill in the prayer with your responses).  Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for non-believers you know today. 

 

Song:  Just As I Am – Carrie Underwood

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRbrK6Pydgs