Showing posts with label Michael w smith. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Michael w smith. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 23, 2023

Self-Care or Self Indulgence

Romans 12:10: “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves."

John 3:20 “He must become greater; I must become less.” (John the Baptist)

 

One of the great paradoxes of life is that the more we make our lives about ourselves, the more miserable we will be.  To put it positively, the more we use our lives to bless others, the more joy we will have.  The sad thing about this truth is that I know it and often, I still don’t live to bless others.  There is this part of me that always wants me to focus on me. Psychologists call this part the ego. Parker Palmer calls it the “false self.”  Whatever you call it, it is insanely persistent in pursuing what it wants to the exclusion of others. 

One of the lies our ego would have us believe is that, “I’m just taking care of myself, fulfilling my needs.”  But self-care and self-love are not the same as self-indulgence.  If we are made to fulfill a purpose that blesses and helps others, and I believe that we are, then spending our lives simply trying to satisfy our appetites actually betrays our true selves.

As is often case, I know this, but I don’t do it even close to as much as I want.  I’m thankful for you all because you all help me hear the voice of my true self.  I have this deep desire to see you all be blessed and I know that is the real me.  Some of the most fulfilling times in my life have been when I was immersed in doing things for others –I want to see more of that guy.  I’m working on that.

 

Question:  Can you describe the difference in how you feel when you are blessing others vs. when you are being self-indulgent?

 

Prayer:  God, you are, by definition, love.  You delight in blessing us.  We pray that we could experience that delight in living for and loving each other.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for peace in the streets of our cities.

 

Song: Give it Away – Michael W. Smith

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zc55Y1KqLYw

Thursday, May 18, 2023

Final Charge to Corinth

1 Corinthians 16:13-14, CEB - Stay awake, stand firm in your faith, be brave, be strong.  Everything should be done in love.

 

At the end of the first (recorded) letter to the church in Corinth, Paul charges his beloved community to have an active faith.  Every word above implies a faith that is at the forefront of who they are; every word implies intentional effort and resolve.  They are still good words to focus on two thousand years later.    

                “Stay awake” – A Christian cannot be on autopilot.  While it is essential to have habits (ex. spiritual disciplines) that we faithfully practice almost without having to think about it, we also need to give focused attention to all that is happening around us and be ready to adapt and respond.  Jesus warned about being asleep and unprepared for what is yet to come. Paul reinforces this charge to being actively aware of what God is doing in the present age.

                “Stand firm in your faith” – To be a follower of Jesus will naturally put one at odds with some of the values of people around us.  The temptation is to “go with the flow” and avoid “making waves.”  We are called to live our values even when it is unpopular or even in opposition to the environmental pressures by which we are confronted.  This was true in ancient Corinth and it is still true in modern-day America.

                “Be Brave” - Nelson Mandela once said: “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”  Christians are people who can be afraid, but move forward in spite of those fears, trusting that God will be with them an all circumstances.

                “Be strong” – Like its physical counterpart, developing spiritual strength does not happen automatically.  To build strong physical muscles, you must be disciplined in training those muscles on a regular basis.  Spiritual muscles are developed in the same way.  We commit to and practice regularly those spiritual disciplines that force our faith to become stronger. 

                “Everything should be done in love.” – This sounds nice and sweet, but have you ever tried to do EVERY SINGLE THING in love for just one day?  It is HIGH BAR Paul is setting here, but it should always be our aim nonetheless. 

 

Questions:  Which of these final exhortations from Paul in 1 Corinthians did you need to hear the most today?  What are you going to do about it?

 

Prayer:  Lord, we know we need to be awake, firm in our faith, brave, strong, and acting in constant love toward all, but on our own, it is impossible.  Help us as only You can this day to be the people you call us to be.  Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for people you know who don’t have the resources of a Christian faith to face the challenges of their lives right now.

 

Song:  Be Strong and Courageous – Michael W. Smith

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCA4NqWZajE

Tuesday, January 25, 2022

If You Want Something Done Right…

 

If You Want Something Done Right…

January 25, 2022


Matthew 19:16-26, NIV - Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?”

“Why do you ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments.”

“Which ones?” he inquired.

Jesus replied, “‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’”

“All these I have kept,” the young man said. “What do I still lack?”

Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth.  Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and asked, “Who then can be saved?”  Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

                                               

 

Looking at this passage, I am drawn to the last statement of Jesus.  “Nothing is impossible with God.”  This saying of Jesus has been quoted by many in many different situations, but it occurs to me now that, at least in this case, Jesus is talking about something very specific that is possible for God and impossible for man – eternal life.  The disciples’ minds are blown when Jesus says the bit about how hard it is for rich people to get into the kingdom of God.  That’s because in Jesus day, being rich was equated with being divinely blessed.  Hence the disciples’ question, “who then can be saved?” is understandable. 

These days, we generally don’t have a problem separating the categories of rich and “divinely blessed.”  However, Jesus statement is no less true today than it was when he first uttered it. I like the way Frederick Buechner says it:

“The trouble with being rich is that since you can solve with your checkbook virtually all of the practical problems that bedevil ordinary people, you are left in your leisure with nothing but the great human problems to contend with: how to be happy, how to love and be loved, how to find meaning and purpose in your life.  In desperation the rich are continually tempted to believe that they can solve these problems too with their checkbooks, which is presumably what led Jesus to remark one day that for a rich man to get to Heaven is about as easy as for a Cadillac to get through a revolving door.”

It was not a transaction Jesus was looking for as if the young wealthy man could buy salvation.  Jesus knew that the man would never be able to receive the kingdom unless the tie to that which he truly trusted in (wealth) was severed.  Our connection to eternal life has nothing to do with what we can do for ourselves, but everything to do with what God can do.  Although I know mentally that this is true, the challenge has always been for me to live like I know this is true.  How about you?

 

Question: In what ways do you keep trying to earn some kind of “divine credit” by things you do?

 

Prayer:  God, help us move toward truly trusting you for our salvation and away from somehow trying to earn it. Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for God to show you the things you are truly trusting in right now.

 

Song:  Lord, Have Mercy – Michael W. Smith (ft. Amy Grant)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjPrIVKlvsM

Monday, October 18, 2021

Matthew 11:20-26 - A Jesus That Makes Us Uncomfortble

 


Daily Devo w/ Pastor Eric October 18, 2021

A Jesus that Makes Us Uncomfortable

 

Matthew 11:20-26, CEV - In the towns where Jesus had worked most of his miracles, the people refused to turn to God. So Jesus was upset with them and said:

You people of Chorazin are in for trouble! You people of Bethsaida are in for trouble too! If the miracles that took place in your towns had happened in Tyre and Sidon, the people there would have turned to God long ago. They would have dressed in sackcloth and put ashes on their heads. I tell you that on the day of judgment the people of Tyre and Sidon will get off easier than you will.

People of Capernaum, do you think you will be honored in heaven? You will go down to hell! If the miracles that took place in your town had happened in Sodom, that town would still be standing.  So I tell you that on the day of judgment the people of Sodom will get off easier than you.

At that moment Jesus said:

My Father, Lord of heaven and earth, I am grateful that you hid all this from wise and educated people and showed it to ordinary people.  Yes, Father, that is what pleased you.

                 

When we began this study of Matthew, I initially thought that it we would take selected passages of Matthew and move at a steady pace through the Gospel.  You might have noticed (since we are only on Chapter 11 two and half months later) that I was led early on to deal with every passage and skip none.  My primary reason for making this decision was that I did indeed feel that God was leading me to do so.  Along with that though, was a recognition that I needed to resist a tendency I have to skip over passages that are hard to comment on and uncomfortable to hear.  The above passage for today is one of those.  Reading and hearing this particular passage is important because it speaks directly to the resistance in us that tends to only pay attention to Jesus when his words are comfortable to hear. 

As Jesus traveled the Galilean countryside preaching, teaching, healing, and performing other miracles, some places were very receptive to his ministry and they turned wholeheartedly toward Him and the Kingdom He proclaimed.  This turning toward also implies a turning away from the way things were – this simultaneous turning away from and turning toward is the core definition of repentance.  The people who embraced Jesus’s kingdom saw their lives transformed.  This was Jesus’s intention for them and, by the way, it is still Jesus intention for us. 

But there were other towns, like Chorazin, Bethsaida, and Capernaum, that may have enjoyed Jesus’s miracles, had their ears tickled by His teaching and may have even believed that Jesus was who He said He was, but there was no substantive change in their lives as a result.  They did NOT turn away from their old lives and they did NOT turn toward Jesus’s kingdom.  They may have enjoyed Jesus’s performance, but they were unchanged in any significant way. 

It's here where Jesus’s words get uncomfortable.  Judgement is coming for the those who do not turn away from their wickedness and lest we think that judgement is no big deal, Jesus recalls three cities whose terrible fates (Tyre, Sidon, and Sodom) will be better than the unrepentant cities he visited.  Tyre and Sidon were conquered and destroyed; Sodom was completely burned to the ground and wiped from the face of the earth.   All three cities were implored by the prophets to repent but did not prior to their destruction.   Like Chorazin, Bethsaida, and Capernaum, they were unchanged by God’s word and works towards them.  Jesus emphatically proclaims there are dire consequences for making that collective choice.

My pastoral instinct is to try and soften Jesus’s words here – to offer some explanation for this harshness from the mouth of our Savior.  But to do so would be an attempt to “domesticate” Jesus, to make Him and His message something less jarring.  But the truth is that Jesus intends for His message to be jarring.   People do not change their ways when they are perfectly comfortable with their present ways.  There is no repentance (a simultaneous turning away from what was and a turning toward what is coming) in people who like what was just fine. 

So instead, my invitation today is “sit with” the discomfort of Jesus’s words above (and elsewhere).  Let that discomfort permeate your defenses and unsettle that in you which needs to be unsettled – those things in you that need to change.  Because Jesus proclaimed these warnings to whole cities (large groups/systems of people), I also invite us to let Jesus’s words unsettle in our own groups/systems of people that which needs to be unsettled – those systemic changes that need to happen in order for our cities to be aligned with the Kingdom of God. 

Tomorrow, we will hear the Jesus we like to hear, a Jesus who is “humble and gentle at heart” and who offers to lighten our load.  But today, we need to sit with the Jesus expects us and our cities to be changed by His words and warns us of the dire consequences coming if that change/repentance never comes. 

 

Question: What is something that would have to change if you were to turn toward Jesus even more than you have at this point in your life?

 

Prayer:  Investigate my life, O God, find out everything about me, Cross-examine and test me, get a clear picture of what I’m about; See for yourself whether I’ve done anything wrong—then guide me on the road to eternal life. (Psalm 139:24-25, The Message) Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for specific places/situations of injustice that you are aware of right now in our world.

 

Song:  Lord Have Mercy - Michael W. Smith ft. Amy Grant

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ID0Mpy6zfts