Wednesday, May 3, 2023

Let’s Talk About Sex (and Other Stuff too)

1 Corinthians 6:11-20, The Message - Don’t you realize that this is not the way to live? Unjust people who don’t care about God will not be joining in his kingdom. Those who use and abuse each other, use and abuse sex, use and abuse the earth and everything in it, don’t qualify as citizens in God’s kingdom. A number of you know from experience what I’m talking about, for not so long ago you were on that list. Since then, you’ve been cleaned up and given a fresh start by Jesus, our Master, our Messiah, and by our God present in us, the Spirit.

Just because something is technically legal doesn’t mean that it’s spiritually appropriate. If I went around doing whatever I thought I could get by with, I’d be a slave to my whims.

You know the old saying, “First you eat to live, and then you live to eat”? Well, it may be true that the body is only a temporary thing, but that’s no excuse for stuffing your body with food, or indulging it with sex. Since the Master honors you with a body, honor him with your body!

God honored the Master’s body by raising it from the grave. He’ll treat yours with the same resurrection power. Until that time, remember that your bodies are created with the same dignity as the Master’s body. You wouldn’t take the Master’s body off to a whorehouse, would you? I should hope not.

There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.” Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever—the kind of sex that can never “become one.” There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love, for “becoming one” with another. Or didn’t you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don’t you see that you can’t live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.

 

                As we talked about in an earlier reflection, Paul wrote this letter to the church in Corinth to address specific problems that the congregation he had served for a year and a half was struggling with.  In chapters 5-7, Paul addresses the broad category of sexual immorality that evidently was prevalent in the Corinthian church.  One man was having sex with his mother-in-law (um.. ewww!).  Others continued to participate in the Temple prostitution that was prevalent in Corinth.  There were still others engaged in obviously inappropriate sexual relations.  The worst part was they all believed and stated that it all was completely fine.  “Christians are freed by God, so we can do anything we wish,” was their claim.

                At the core of Paul’s response to all of this is this; to do whatever you want isn’t freedom.  When you live that way, you have become a slave to your whims and desires.  And especially when it comes to sex, this can lead to even bigger problems.  When the covenantal, spiritual, and sacred aspects of sexual intimacy are removed from sexual acts, the results create brokenness and misery in our relationships and community.  Mistrust and anger begin to abound.  In the middle of this discussion about sex, Paul inserts a quick response about Christians taking other Christians to court.  It seems out of place in a section about sex until we think about the brokenness, mistrust, and anger created by taking sex too casually.  The community’s relationships had degenerated to the point that they were taking into secular courts. 

                Sex is a good thing when it happens in the context of two people who are in loving covenantal relationship with each other.  It is in danger of becoming an unhealthy and even harmful thing when it happens outside of that context.  It can even become another form of slavery.  We are seeing the result of this play out now with the plethora of sexual addictions on the rise in our present time.  It matters what you do with your body because your body is the spiritual property of God and your spouse. We are called to honor God and our spouse with the use of our body. 

                Even though the issue Paul is responding to is sex, Paul’s teaching has larger implications that twenty-first-century Christians should take seriously.  We live in a culture that is moving more and more into a “do whatever seems good to you and trust that God’s grace will make it okay” mentality.  Paul is trying to point out that doing whatever you want when ever you want with whoever you want works against the power of God’s grace in our lives.  Trusting in God’s grace means that we do all we know to do to live in healthy relation to God and people knowing that where we fail, grace will “fill in the gap” so to speak.  Grace is even more powerful in the life a Christian when it is a partnership. 

 

Question:  Are there areas of your life that do not honor God or people who you claim to love? 

 

Prayer:  Psalm 51:10-12 - Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.  Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for people you know who are struggling with problems caused by sexual immorality and infidelity. 

 

Song:  Let’s Talk About Sex – Salt N Pepa

I couldn’t resist. No really, this song actually points to some of the same problems Paul was trying to address. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8CISk43LYg

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