Wednesday, April 27, 2022

Forgiveness is a Process

 


1 John 1:8-9, The Message -  If we claim that we’re free of sin, we’re only fooling ourselves. A claim like that is errant nonsense. On the other hand, if we admit our sins—simply come clean about them—he won’t let us down; he’ll be true to himself. He’ll forgive our sins and purge us of all wrongdoing.

 

Forgiveness is most often not an event

Movies, books, love songs and other media often characterize forgiveness as a moment.  After an eternity of fighting and struggle, the two estranged friends or lovers have a profound experience that enables them to see the world and their relationship in a different way.  They realize their feud has been senseless and then there is a touching moment of forgiveness – the actual words “I forgive you,” an embrace, a kiss or some combination of the three. The reality of forgiveness is mostly less dramatic and much more difficult.  Calling forgiveness a process or a journey is more generally accurate.

It’s not that it can’t happen in a moment, but that’s the exception. In Paul Young’s The Shack, God the Father is answering a question Mac has about this process:

“You may have to declare your forgiveness a hundred times the first day and the second day, but the third day will be less and each day after, until one day you will realize that you have forgiven completely.”

Even the way God’s forgiveness seems to be more of a process than a specific moment in time.  God’s forgiveness is instantaneous, but our acceptance of that forgiveness is almost always a gradual embrace.  Typically, our cognitive assent to the idea that God does indeed forgive our sins precedes our actual experience of feeling fully forgiven.  God’s grace is surprising.  It does not feel natural that God would not hold our sins against us or “remember them no more” as we talked about yesterday.  We may have to remind ourselves that the grace has indeed been given to us.  In fact, my encouragement to you today is adopt the practice of reminding yourself that God has forgiven you. 

                At the end of each day, as you reflect on the last 24 hours, take a solemn moment before you close your eyes and actually say the words, “God has forgiven all of my sin, thanks be to God.”  I will warn you.  If you never done this, it will feel awkward at first, maybe even disingenuous.  But stay with it.  It begin to make it’s way into your mind and heart.  It’s a process.  Let God’s forgiveness soak in at the end of each day.  See how it changes your outlook.

 

Question:  How deeply do you trust that God has indeed forgiven you of all sins?

 

Prayer:  God, You have forgiven all of my sin, thanks and praise be to You.  Help me believe in and trust your forgiveness. Amen.

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for each of your household members today.  If you live alone, pray for your closest neighbors.   Amen.

 

Song:  Forgiven – Crowder

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_ZWEO36jok

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