Monday, June 26, 2023

The Critical Space Between


A bevy of scriptures on our next fruit gentleness:

 

Titus 3:2

To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.

1 Peter 3:15

But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect,

Proverbs 15:1

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

2 Timothy 2:24

And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness

James 3:17

But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.

Galatians 6:1

Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.

Matthew 11:29

Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

 

Why all the scripture?  I wanted to point out how scripture teaches us to be gentle in almost everything we do.  Speak gently, defend our faith gently, respond to anger gently, serve gently, exercise wisdom gently, correct a mistake gently, (etc, etc, etc.. ).  I could list several more scriptures that pair gentleness with virtually all activities of the follower of Jesus.  In my experience, gentleness is one of the most overlooked fruits in the list.  It’s the lychee (a fruit that many have never heard of… if you’re interested, google it) of the spiritual world. 😊

Also, it is perhaps the most badly needed right now.  We are living in a time when so many people’s nerves are frayed and their stress levels are through the roof.  That actually can explain the lack of gentleness; when we’re feeling stressed and harassed, gentleness doesn’t come naturally.  The irony is that it is those times of stress and harassment that gentleness is most needed. 

The good news today is that there is a reliable source of gentleness – the Spirit of God.  But in order to access this everlasting source, we have to push “pause” in the moment before losing our you-know-what.  There is actually a moment before we throw gentleness out the window.  God’s Spirit is there in that moment, but we often ignore it.  Taking a long slow breath in that moment has the potential to remind ourselves that the Spirit is available to help.  As you inhale, feel the Breath move into your lungs.  “Breath” is the root meaning of the Hebrew word for “Spirit.”  With the Spirit accessed through our breath, we may notice we have more options than the one that was about to happen automatically.  This is a moment of freedom. This is a moment when a gentle option becomes possible.  Try it today.

We’ll continue our practice tomorrow with a discussion about how gentleness is the option of strength, not weakness.

 

Prayer:  God, help us discover the moment between our stresses and our response, for in discovering those moments we discover you are there. Amen

 

Prayer Focus:  Pray for people you vehemently disagree with today.

 

Song:  David Crowder Band – How He Loves

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Plngh8SkkA4

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